Long Distance: First Baecation Ever馃槏!
Curly 3C, Kinky 4A
Long Distance: First Baecation Ever馃槏!
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Curly 3C
Kinky 4A
All Natural 鉂わ笍
1 Year Natural
Bae Locs
USA - Midwest
I鈥檝e been in a long distance relationship for a year now and I was anxious to come and see him when he mentioned it, but nervous about me getting home and what my mom would think. But I got over it, hopped on a Greyhound bus and went to see him with no hesitation.
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I鈥檓 not gonna tell u that it was easy because it wasn鈥檛. I left home at 6am Friday and it took me until 10pm Saturday to get where he was馃う馃徑鈥嶁檧锔 Delay after delay and I couldn鈥檛 spend any money because I still needed to catch a Lyft home when I got back. Each delay had me scared. Would I even have enough time with him? I would be in the middle of nowhere, I don鈥檛 know the area and I鈥檝e never been down south before. The whole time I was gone I haven鈥檛 eaten and I felt tired and sick.
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It took me over 12 hours just to get there, but when bae picked me up and we met for the first time, I realized it was worth it. When we hugged and I felt how warm and comforting he is, I realized I鈥檇 do it all over again in a heartbeat.
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It was by far the best weekend I鈥檝e ever had in my life. I had so much fun and I loved waking up to him every morning even if it was only for 2 days. And GIRRLLL 馃槼he can cook good af. We woke up, cooked, cleaned and danced to music together the whole time馃槀馃槏馃槤
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I braided his hair and he has tiny, kinky 4c curls. They鈥檙e so pretty and unique馃槏 and so hard to separate into sections without him saying 鈥渙uch girl鈥濔煒
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The worse part about the whole trip was leaving because it鈥檚 hard having someone you love very much with you for the first time, and then have taken away from you after a day. It鈥檚 like all the color was stripped away from your eyes when you thought you were seeing normally. I cried on the way back, it was so hard to speak to him I left because we were so close and now we鈥檙e back to only texting and FaceTime
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luvmycurls3c That was so cute. Before I saw his hair products I was wondering 鈥 do he have a natural hair collection?鈥 馃ぃ馃ぃ . Sometimes you have to leap out on faith and you did just that. Nothing wrong with it 馃檶馃徑 you winning.
Natural.Rii That鈥檚 such a brave and big step to take, I have a lot of respect for people in long distance relationships because I know that It takes so much strength and patience to hold. My boyfriend lives about 3 minutes away from me and I cannot imagine not being able to walk over there when I鈥檓 feeling stressed or sleep over when i want to wake up to him. I can really see the love you have for each other
afrotica @luvmycurls3c thank you馃槶
afrotica @Natural.Rii yea girl it takes patience and communication is key, it鈥檚 definitely the real thing tho馃挅鈽猴笍
meccaamebane7 This is so sweet ! And i loved how you was boosting his confidence!
naturallyme316 Awww this was sooo sweet and pure I love love. I鈥檓 glad guys were able to see each other. And now that you鈥檝e done the trip it should be a breeze the next time lol. Baecations are the best!!!
naturallyme316 And keep boosting his confidence. Men need that just as much as women!!! I stay making my husband blush lol.
torixrenee Awwwwww! Omg y鈥檃ll make the CUTEST couple! So glad you had a great time!
afrotica @naturallyme316 thank u馃槶馃挄
afrotica @torixrenee GIRL u been such a supportive person to me馃挅thank u so much for talking to me when I did it
afrotica @jojo.zean34 馃槀馃槀thank you
torixrenee @afrotica no problem girl! Thanks for sharing with me. Hit me up anytime. 馃挍
naturallyunbothered Love this 馃槏 was in a long distance relationship for 3 in a half years out of the 7 years we have been together and it was definitely hard but I end up moving to where he was after I graduated hs and I鈥檓 still here couldn鈥檛 be happier and will be getting married soon 鉂わ笍馃拲 moral of the story who cares what parents friends or anybody says if you love him and trust him go for it girl!
afrotica @naturallyunbothered Definitely馃槏馃挄and that sounds like a dream come tru
curlyzari This was sooo cute! You took a huge step in your relationship, be proud of that! 鉂わ笍
soletaire0123 This is so beautiful and cute 鉂わ笍馃グ I really felt you when you said how it feels when you鈥檙e away from your loved one. I have a bf of my own but he goes to public school and I鈥檓 homeschooled. It鈥檚 real difficult for us even tho we鈥檙e in the same city. I literally get to see him only once every 2-3 weeks. I might even be moving to FL with my family soon and idk if he鈥檇 do long distance.
afrotica @soletaire0123 thanks馃挋 and yea mines been graduated cuz he鈥檚 a couple years older than me but if ur moving he should most definitely still b down to b with u. If he can鈥檛 do it and 鈥渏ust wants to be friends鈥 he was never the one. Honesty is everything in relationships
jazziebean @afrotica I absolutely loved your post! I鈥檓 kinda in a similar situation as well... FaceTime is such a poor substitute when you鈥檝e experienced the real thing 馃槴... keep your head up girl. This isn鈥檛 the end. Keep posted 馃槉
onedayat-a-time @afrotica the mother instinct in me is kicking in hard, curious how old you are taking a bus so very far away and saying you didn鈥檛 let your parents know. Being a parent is the hardest thing in the world and this is why you are in constant fear of your child鈥檚 safety. I鈥檓 very glad you are home safe and he wasn鈥檛 a crazy person but my dear having your parents worry like that is serious
onedayat-a-time The world is a beautiful place but it has some very scary people in it. Please just be safe and let people know you are safe. You are a beautiful girl be careful sweetie
afrotica @onedayat-a-time lollllll mom instincts馃槀my mom was too busy with my little brother to actually care about every little thing I was doing which is a gift and a curse. I had just turned 17 and was taking the greyhound bus from Michigan to Georgia (which greyhound I didn't kno this but they legally consider adults 17+) i didn't just see him on the internet one day and then go see him immediately
afrotica @onedayat-a-time I took a year to get to kno him and see how he was. So it took everyday constantly talking for a year for me to feel comfortable taking that big step. My mama did not raise no fool馃槀 I woulda definitely knew if he was up to something but I took some safety measures beforehand like turning on my location, telling my friends where I was,ect. Thank you tho I appreciate that u care鉂わ笍
onedayat-a-time Thank you for sharing your story, I wasn鈥檛 sure if my comments were over stepping....it wasn鈥檛 meant to be. I was truly concerned for your safety. I鈥檓 glad you responded鉂わ笍 you are extremely brave. When I was your age I took a 3 hour train all by myself and thought that was intense 馃槀wishing you all the best Lil sis you have a wonderful future ahead of you, take your time and enjoy life.
afrotica @onedayat-a-time I had this app deleted for almost a year lol it's not u I promise. I understand u were just curious and my story was very outlandish and wild I don't blame u馃槀and thank you I appreciate it鉂わ笍likewise
afrobeauty https://bit.ly/33q6Jtk this is the truth!
ilyag Aww this was so cute
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