On my little journey to open up even more I’m gonna talk about my long distance relationship since I last posted about it.
I only visited him twice in 2019 because we were going thru some regular relationship issues honestly. I had just turned 18 in July, excited to start being grown and started smoking and he wasn’t ok with it. Us still being young and not being good at communicating we been on and off instead of talking it out which is SOOOO petty 😭
I was going through horrible traumatic experiences after we broke up from a rape to a car accident and I wasn’t in a good place mentally. Even tho we weren’t together being in a relationship we were still very good friends(best friends tbh) and I confided in him with everything and he did the same with me(I won’t tell you what he was going through it’s HIS business). Eventually I came to my senses that we might as well get back together and just stay together for real. The whole point of being in a relationship is to build each other up and help one another and I could tell we both needed it.
So we started being more respectful, disciplined, and most importantly responsible in our renewing relationship. We’re both making sure we have good career paths to fall back on and making arrangements for us to live together.
I’m engaged, we’re doing ring stuff and the best thing of all we’re taking our time with it. I’m in school and there’s no rush anymore. We have each other and all the time in the world. And I can honestly say we’ve both matured since last year. He’s been controlling his emotions, I’ve been talking out my problems instead of shutting down....I can tell you right now that from the bottom of my heart that I actually love him.
We’ve gotten to know each other so much these past 2 years. I’ve been wanting a romantic type of guy and been trying to make him into one but he’s not. He’s a nerd, a warrior and an idiot sometimes😂he may not be the type to bring me flowers to my job but I know up and down he will provide for me and protect me when it comes down to it. I think that’s romantic enough😭❤️
Now the only obstacle we’re facing is figuring out how many kids to have🤣🤷🏽♀️
Peace, Love, and Salutations ✌🏼❤️
Ps. Long distance relationships are very much possible, you have to be strong enough to do it🤷🏽♀️I met my husband on Instagram September 23,2017 lol🤣don’t call Chris Hanson